A couple nights ago, about 9:30 PM, there’s a ring at the front door.
It’s a young woman, holding her head, vocalizing about “being hurt” and “being in pain”. From what we could see through the peep-hole, there was a small child with her.
Oldest answered the door.
Actually, Sasha (our 100 lb Kuvasz) answered the door first.
BARKBARKBARKBARKBARKBARKBARK (in a most unwelcoming tone).
After we got her calmed down.
“Who is it?”
“I need help. I’m hurting.”
“Sorry, we cannot help you.”
I was fast asleep. Wife woke me up and quickly briefed me. By the time I got to the door, she was gone.
Wife mentioned seeing a car just up the road, that drove off shortly thereafter.
Yeah… it looks like someone targeted our house for burglary. Don’t know why, doesn’t really matter why.
But it’s a typical attempt.
Use a woman. Because no one would suspect a woman of being a criminal. And in this case, having a small child with them (which is particularly despicable).
Have a ruse. Something to gain sympathy. Something to cause you to open your heart and your front door. When you open the door, if they don’t rush in, at least they will survey all they can to determine if it’s a good target.
This is why it’s critical you ANSWER your door. It’s important to let them know someone is home. That’s why they are knocking – to determine if someone is home or not.
BUT this does NOT mean you have to OPEN your door. In fact, do NOT open your door (this doesn’t mean open the main door and leave the storm door locked — open NO door, so they cannot see inside and you keep as many barriers between you and them). You can speak just fine THROUGH your door. If you have one of those new video/audio doorbells, use that and speak through that. If you don’t, just project your voice and speak THROUGH the door. There is NO need to open it: answer it, but don’t open it.
You don’t need to have a conversation.
“Who is it?”
Even if you determine it’s someone to bother with, be certain of that before you open your door. If you have doubt, take precautions. Delivery people don’t need to come in. Were you expecting a pizza? Does this person have a pizza? Did they come from the place you ordered from? If you’re still in doubt, call the pizza place first and ask them who the driver is and if the person at your door matches.
Yeah, some might call you paranoid, but it’s your personal safety here. Do what you need to satisfy yourself.
If the person says “I need help” you can give a simple response:
“I will help you by calling the police to come help you.”
I reckon if someone is truly in need, they might be annoyed but will accept the help (tho of course today just about everyone has a mobile phone and could call the police themselves if they needed it). If they aren’t in need, I reckon they’ll decline and be on their way.
If needed, call the police anyways.
Don’t threaten that you have a gun. Don’t say anything about shooting. Keep things calm and polite (but firm) – don’t escalate until it’s evident it’s time to escalate. It might just be some annoying person wanting you to sign a petition (and that doesn’t understand that “No Soliciting” doesn’t just mean selling wares), and such escalation could cause you more problems.
Just be polite and firm. Answer – but don’t open – the door. Work to determine if it’s a conversation to have, and if not, break it off firmly, including an offer to call the police if needed.