Going through email this morning, I got sent the following article about 9 Daily Habits That Will Make You Happier.
Seems a little self-helpy, but there’s some solid things in here. The one that stood out to me?
5. Assume people have good intentions.
Since you can’t read minds, you don’t really know the “why” behind the “what” that people do. Imputing evil motives to other people’s weird behaviors adds extra misery to life, while assuming good intentions leaves you open to reconciliation.
Recently I’ve been dealing with some difficult people going through some difficult times, and I know if they tried this it would have saved them much grief.
I try to do this, but I can step back and see I don’t try enough. I will work on that about myself. I know it will not only save me a lot of grief, but it helps the relationship too.