Good parenting advice… from Gene Simmons

I know. You’d want to think that Gene Simmons wouldn’t know a thing about parenting. He does.

Never negotiate with kids. They don’t have life experience, and they don’t have repercussions for bad decisions, they still get fed and housed. And most importantly: I’m bigger! Don’t hit, but don’t pander or give power to kids. They have to know where the power lies. Otherwise, why would they respect it?

Whenever I see poorly behaved children, I look at the parents to see why. Without exception the parents negotiate with the kids, beg and plead with the kids… the parents give the kids the power. If the kid makes a bad decision, there are no serious negative consequences for it. Folks, you reap what you sow. Gene nails it.

If Sophie [Gene’s 17-year-old daughter] came home high or drunk, she’d find her Beverly Hills butt in the middle of the Arizona desert in a work camp. I’m deadly serious. The only jobs kids have are to do well in school, to be charming and polite, and be thankful. That’s it. I’ll house you, protect you, I’ll even give my life for you, and in return, you will behave.


It’s always possible the way Sophie and Nick (Gene’s 20-year-old son) behave on the family’s TV show is not how they really are, but I doubt it because that’d be one hell of a charade. Same goes for Ozzy’s kids, Jack and Kelly, on their show. Compare and contrast their behaviors. Sophie and Nick seem to have their heads screwed on pretty well, despite their family situation. So again, see how the kids behave and look at the parents. I think Gene knows what he’s talking about.

Love him or hate him, he’s always interesting. Give the whole article a read. A lot of good stuff in there.

2 thoughts on “Good parenting advice… from Gene Simmons

  1. Better Half and I had the chance to see him on “Are You Smarter Than a Fifth Grader” a few months back… He, unfortunately, did not make it to the end, but he put up a remarkably good showing, was more than a little witty, and seemed remarkably intelligent/together for probably having done insanely copious amounts of drugs in the past.

    So, with those kinds of genetics and that kind of mind bringing them up, I guess I am not surprised that his kids are being raised relatively well…

    Of course, on the flip side, that explains why we never see his kids in the news – no one is interested in publicizing good parenting and well-behaved children.

    • Actually, Gene has never done drugs or drank alcohol in his life, or at least, so he claims. I have no reason not to believe him given his demeanor and behavior.

      He’s got a mind for business, there’s no question. Sure some of his ventures fail, some work out poorly, some work out good, some work out great… but that’s life, you can’t bat 1000. But he does a pretty good job. Sure there are some things I don’t agree with him on, but I’ve got a lot of respect for the guy. He’s certainly living the life that many people would love.

      And you make a good point there too… his kids aren’t in the news because they are well-behaved. 🙂 Same with Ted Nugent’s kids.

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